A lady being sued by her ex-fiance for calling him a violent intercourse addict has been described as a ruthless booze-hound who drank whereas pregnant and despatched racy pics to her secret lover.
Melbourne man Constantine Arvanitis broke down in tears on Tuesday as he entered the witness field to dish out the dust on the lady he as soon as claimed to like.
Mr Arvantis is suing his ex-partner Selina Holder for defamation over an allegation she shared a doc about him with two of his different ex-girlfriends – one among whom then shared it along with his present fiancee’s sister.
Selina Holder was all smiles as she entered the County Coutr of Victoria on Tuesday afternoon
Mr Arvanitis deliberate to sue all three girls however will now solely pursue the defamation swimsuit in opposition to Ms Holder
Selina Holder was sued after she allegedly despatched the ex-girlfriends of her former boyfriend some nasty correspondence
Letter To Mr Arvantis’ New Accomplice
Court docket paperwork allege Selina Holder shared a doc with Mr Arvantis’ present fiancee that said:
‘He’s harmful and violent and intercourse addict (sic).
He goes to Sydney and cheats on you.
He’ll beat you up. (redacted)
We now have the police investigating him.
We need to warn you.
We’re the sisterhood.
We now have to reveal him.
He’ll take all of your cash.
He must be stopped. We now have proof of his abuse.
We try to save lots of you.
You could contact us so we will shield you from this evil individual.
All of us need to assist you.
We’re in Melbourne collectively so please meet with us.
The doc alleged Mr Arvantis broke the defendant’s foot, that he was a prescription drug supplier, was mentally unstable, a legal and a ‘intercourse addict’.
Mr Arvantis additional claims a letter outlining comparable allegations was additionally obtained by his present fiancee.
Whereas the IT specialist’s different two ex-girlfriends have since apologised and made retractions, Ms Holder proceeded to the County Court docket of Victoria to face-off together with her ex-boyfriend.
It was a choice she might quickly stay to remorse.
On Tuesday afternoon, after enduring a morning of proof from Mr Arvantis, the matter was stood down to permit the warring ex-couple to enter mediation.
Solely yesterday the court docket heard Mr Arvanitis would finish his authorized motion ought to Ms Holder’s consent to an order that she cease making defamatory statements, an acknowledgment that what she had written was false, and $5000.
That provide was refused.
As a substitute, Mr Arvantis painted a grim image of the lady he claims was out to destroy his repute.
He informed the court docket he had met Ms Holder by way of a relationship app in September 2012.
Melbourne man Constantine Arvanitis claims the one-page letter was despatched to his accomplice Melanie Thornton and warned her that he was harmful, violent and a intercourse addict
Selina Holder enters the County Court docket of Victoria on Tuesday. She has been contesting a declare she defamed her ex-boyfriend
However the relationship rapidly soured and by 2015 it ended after the beginning of their baby.
Mr Arvantis claimed Ms Holder had cheated on him from the start of their relationship and had as soon as discovered a ranchy photograph message on her telephone that he claimed she had despatched to her secret lover.
When questioned concerning the picture, Mr Arvantis claimed Ms Holder would develop into violent and lash out.
Amongst a swag of allegations, Mr Arvantis claimed Ms Holder repeatedly punched him within the face and whipped him over the pinnacle with a telephone charging cable.
A picture of Mr Arvantis’ battered face was tendered to the court docket in assist of his claims.
The daddy of two claimed Ms Holder had not solely consumed alcohol whereas pregnant, however would achieve this whereas breatfeeding their very own baby.
‘I did not assume it was proper,’ Mr Arvantis stated.
The court docket heard Ms Holder as soon as punched him within the face as he drove their automobile, however when he tried to make a report back to police they informed him to not hassle.
‘If you happen to had been a feminine I would haven’t any hesitation in slapping an intervention order on,’ the workplace allegedly informed him.
Mr Arvantis was issued with an order of his personal later that night after the argument esculated, the court docket heard.
By 2015, Mr Arvantis claimed Ms Holder would assault and incite him to reply after which document him with threats to go to police.
Mr Arvanitis claims Ms Holder additionally despatched a letter to his sister-in-law Chantel Thornton and that the letters have ‘broken past restore’ his relationship along with his in-laws
Selina Holder made no remark as she entered a Melbourne court docket on Tuesday
ACA information hound Seb Costello (far left) ‘bounces’ Selina Holder as she enters the County Court docket of Victoria. She refused to reply any questions from the ready media pack
‘She would throw water on me after which document me,’ he informed the court docket.
He lastly referred to as it quits after Ms Holder shone a torch within the eyes of his sleeping son, he stated.
As the connection continued to bitter, Mr Arvantis claimed his ex-partner threatened to ring his boss and inform him he was a drug addict.
Audio of Ms Holder allegedly making the risk was performed in court docket.
Mr Arvantis, who claimed to have kicked a rampant cocaine behavior that threatened to devour his life, stated he had continued to pay all of his baby upkeep obligations along with paying off Ms Holder’s bank card money owed.
Ms Holder, who denies she despatched the letter, has filed a defence claiming Mr Arvanitis spent $220,000 on cocaine, took meth and bought Viagra to colleagues whereas working at ANZ.
Court docket paperwork declare Mr Arvanitis noticed a number of girls on the identical time regardless of claiming he was in a monogamous relationship.
The County Court docket of Victoria is scheduled to run for eight days ought to it not be settled exterior of court docket.